High Tech Safety Self Defense

Suppose a wife has been married for several years.  Suddenly, her husband starts working out by lifting weights, doing cardio, and refraining from eating fatty foods.  His biceps are bulking up as well as his abs.  Should she be happy or suspicious in his behavioral change?  If she does not have the body of a model, then whom is her husband showering with attention?

Most men and women make a conscious effort to improve their body image when a new object of affection shows up in their life.They usually go on a crash diet and somehow to stick with it.  Their waistline shrinks, and they splurge on new clothing.

The behavioral changes of a man are not as subtle as that of a woman.  Not only is he slimming down the waistline and bulking up the biceps, he is working longer hours at the office and wearing cologne more often than he normally does.  He tends to avoid his wife and shows less affection toward her.

On the flipside, a woman is often happier because somebody is showering her with attention.  She is told that she is attractive and feels more desirable.  She feels more content with herself because she is slimming down and improving her self-image.

Both men and women who are having extramarital relationships will have down times in their days or evenings when they fail to answer their cell phone or return a page.  If they do converse during those times, they will be brief in their conversation and evasive as to their current location.  For instance, if a man may tell his wife that he has to stay an extra three hours at the office when really he is having dinner with his lover at a posh restaurant.

None of these behavioral changes are indicative of a cheating spouse.  However, if this kind of behavior persists, just make a note of it for future reference in case he really is having an affair.

Did you hire a new teenage babysitter to watch over your baby while you and your spouse are out on the town?Do you not get comfortable with her yet?  Perhaps you want to know what is going on with your babysitter while you are away.  A nanny cam is a perfect tool to use to keep a close, watchful eye on her.

A nanny cam is simply a hidden camera.  In general, the camera is hidden behind a dark class plate or plastic face plate of a stereo boom box or alarm clock.  You can position this camera anywhere in your house, and usually the stereo will work normally in case the nanny wants to turn it on.

The stereo boom box is advantageous in that is can operate on batteries with no direct connection to an outlet.  The disadvantage of it is that they do not have a video cassette recorder (VCR) hooked up to it.  In order to record using a nanny cam, one must connect a transmitter to the video output of the camera to a VCR.  If hiding the cable between the two machines is not possible, then you must use what is known as a wireless transmitter to transmit the signal to the VCR.

One can purchase them on the internet for less that $400.  These cameras can be positioned in just about any household item.  Nanny cams come available in smoke detectors, wall clocks, alarm clocks, and VCR’s.

If you choose to hook up a nanny cam to a VCR, keep in mind that the VCR can record no more than six hours at “super long playing” or SLP as it is called in electronics lingo.

With increasing sales of digital video recorders (DVR’s), VCR’s are taking a backseat not only to providing entertainment but also for recording your favorite TV shows.  DVR’s are better than VCR’s in that DVR’s contain more memory with which to making a recording using the nanny cam.  Those six hour time frames that VCR’s have are obsolescent as DVR’s take digital recording with nanny cams to new heights.